Thanks both, point taken and I totally understand, its really only time I need and this seems to be a great forum so when I can I will set to and follow as many guides as I can. Thanks again and sorry to have such high expectations, I guess I was looking for an easy fix for something that I now realise I need to do for myself ....with the help of some new friends (hopefully).
My life is dealing with people and most of it by email but a face to face always gets more done, anyway I will be back soon !
Thanks again.