That's a legit reason but I would suggest to give the first DonPachi a try, it's relatively accessible. Deathsmiles isn't terribly difficult either, I can get through the first 3 or sometimes 4 levels without dying, after that though is where it starts to mug me for my quarters.
To be fair to the Cave games though, they do tend to have a "gimmick" that when properly used you can get through those "impossible" spots.